Uncompromised Allegiance to God by St. Gregory the Great


"In this world let us love everyone even though he be our enemy; but let us hate him who opposes us on our way to God, though he be our relative [...]. We should then love our neighbor; we should have charity towards all -- towards relative and towards strangers -- but without separating ourselves from the love of God out of love for them" (St. Gregory the Great, "In Evangelia Homiliae", 37, 3).

St. Gregory the Great is clarifying the distinction between love for people and hatred for evil. He argues that our ultimate allegiance and love must be for God, and this love must not be compromised by human relationships, even with family.


The Command to Love All

St. Gregory emphasizes the Christian duty to love everyone, including one's enemies. This is a direct reflection of Christ's teaching to love one's neighbor. It means we should have a disposition of charity and good will towards all people, regardless of their actions towards us.


The Exception: When a Person Becomes an Obstacle

The key point is the caveat: we must "hate him who opposes us on our way to God." This isn't a call for personal malice or spite. Instead, it's a call to hate the sinful action or the opposition to God itself, not the person. The "hatred" described here is a spiritual rejection of anything that threatens our relationship with God. When a relative or close person becomes an obstacle to our spiritual progress—by tempting us to sin, distracting us from prayer, or encouraging us to abandon our faith—we must spiritually "hate" or detach ourselves from that negative influence.


Prioritizing the Love of God

The final sentence synthesizes these points. We should have charity towards all—relatives and strangers alike—but this love should never lead us to abandon or diminish our love for God. Our love for others must be ordered correctly, meaning it must be a reflection of and subordinate to our primary love for God. This ensures that our earthly relationships do not become idols that pull us away from our ultimate purpose.

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